54 Ways You Can Help The Homeless - Overview

II. What To Do When Confronted With The Homeless

5. Respond With Kindness

You are walking down the street of your town when someone approaches you for coffee, a meal, or a bus ticket to a town where "there are relatives who will help."

How do you respond?

I conducted an informal study, asking my friends and relatives what they think at that moment:

"She needs it more than I."

"Hey, fella, McDonald's is hiring."

"My heart says, 'Give,' but my head says, 'Don't be a fool.'"

"I've already given five bucks this week. It's starting to affect my budget."

"I help in other ways. I work at a shelter, support social agencies, and pay taxes."

The world of the homeless is confusing. Not only do professionals and volunteers involved with the homeless wrestle with difficult questions such as this--so does the average person who is approached on a subway platform, or while walking down the street minding his or her own business.

Amazingly, we can make quite a difference in the lives of the homesless when we respond to them, rather than ignore or dismiss them. Try a kind word. Remember, their self confidence is nearly non-existent. Whatever we can say or do that gives them even an iota of self-worth will have some benefit.

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